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Make this a "Turn around Year!"

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 I read about a month ago from Kenneth Copeland's magazine that Gloria Copeland, his wife, has stated in her article for this January's edition, that she is going to make 2021 a "turn around" year. I thought the idea of turning things around was most appealing and uplifting. I have decided, with God's help, that I, too, will do my best to make 2021 a turn around year. So, what are my goals in making  this year different than all the other years? I am going to turn around anxiety, fear, loneliness and uncertainty and I will do this by turning over my anxiety, fear and loneliness to God and trusting in Him to take these unwanted emotions away and instead, trust Him to get these unwanted emotions out of my life and over to Him. For, I belong to Him, for He cares for me. When you are a born again Christian, God and His son Jesus, want you to be happy and content but you can't be if you are not with them and trusting that they will take care of your personal needs....

Just one focus word for the New Year, not resolutions: Article found online and my few words at the end

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  Just one focus word for the New Year, not resolutions. HABITS & GOALS ·  LIFE GOALS As the New Year approaches it’s time to reflect on the past year, celebrate achievements and give thought to the year ahead. It is the time of the year, where many people think about setting New Year resolutions which they quickly dismiss a few days or weeks later. Dismissed as little forethought went into it. Naturally, I believe in setting goals. In fact, I like to set goals in 8 areas of my life. However, I have also learnt about the power of having one focus word. And how choosing one focus word for the New Year can really help you clarify your core value.   Why choose one focus word for the year. It was during a goal setting workshop at  Kikki K  that I first heard about having a focus word for the year. As a group, we were individually choosing  personal core values . About 5 core values each. I remember choosing family, freedom, community, balance and ...
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The following is a wonderful article about anxiety and how to stop feeling anxious. I can only add one important thing to this article: If you have faith in a higher power--God--go to Him first and find the peace and help you need. He will give you guidance and relief from your anxiety.  Toni Star How to Stop Feeling Anxious Right Now By Locke Hughes   FROM THE WEBMD ARCHIVES While it’s normal to get nervous about an important event or life change, about 40 million Americans live with an anxiety disorder, which is more than the occasional worry or fear. Anxiety disorders can range from a  generalized anxiety disorder  (GAD), which is intense worrying that you can’t control, to  panic disorder  -- sudden episodes of fear, along with heart palpitations, trembling, shaking, or sweating. For those with an anxiety disorder, it’s important to look into strategies that can help manage or reduce anxiety in the long term, like talk therapy or medication. B...

Thanksgiving at Grandma's by Toni Star

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  Thanksgiving at Grandma’s by Toni Star November, then and now, signals just one thing to me, Thanksgiving at Grandma’s.   Thanksgiving at her house was paradise!   The atmosphere of food, laughter and love was wonderful and unforgettable.   Thanksgiving morning at our house was busy.   Mom would prepare a salad or pie; we kids would dress up in our good clothes and then go outside to play. We had to be careful not to get dirty.   Good clothes in our family didn’t come easy.   We weren’t poor but we were very frugal with money and food.   Meanwhile, Dad stayed busy in the garage checking out the old Chevy.   He’d check the oil, water and the battery and then give the tires a kick, for readiness.   Often, I would go into the garage from time to time to see how he was doing.   Often, he found things for me to do-such as checking the oil and water and inspecting the car battery t...

What I have learned from the Covid virus by Toni Star

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I  feel certain that what I am about to say about the Covid virus, many would agree with. First, it has been a trail, tribulation and a challenge! I don't think anyone could deny this. It has shaken people and countries like nothing current generations have seen or gone through before. Each day seems to bring more challenges but many are facing and overcoming these challenges. Certainly, it has caused harm, death and destruction; however, if one can face the awful truth, there can be some nuggets good to be found. I may be very wrong but in my opinion, some good has been, and continues, to come out of all this. Think for a moment. Look at families; many are getting closer than ever before. There is more emphasis on families pulling together than I and others have seen in a long time. More people are staying home and preparing meals--of course, this is necessary because the restaurants and some fast food places are just not ready for prime time yet. Movie theaters are only working m...

Don't wait too long! Prepare for fall now! by Toni Star

In just a few weeks fall will begin. Yes, I know. It is still quite warm. Nothing to worry about. Or, is it? Even though it is sunny and warm, cooler weather is already beginning in some states. In Ohio, the 70s are appearing and that means that soon, summer will be gone. So, what should you and I do to prepare for the upcoming cooler weather? The following is a brief list of what we all should do in the coming weeks: 1. Get rid of anything that is not needed--clothes, blankets, shoes and such. Give them to the Goodwill or S. Army or to someone who could really use these items. 2. Have your furnace, hot water heater and dryer vent checked. Also, if you have a fireplace, clean it out or have someone do it for you. If the fireplace is heated by gas, then call the furnace company and have them come out and do some maintenance on it. This will give you peace of mind and it will be operating at a good and safe pace. 3. Downsize furniture, if needed and purchase furniture that will make your...

When times are tough, run to God! by Toni Star

Like millions of people, my husband and I are going through this worldwide virus deal and we are so tired of it! The cleaning, disinfecting, the not being able to go anywhere for fear of picking of the virus--well, it is just plain tiring and has turned our lifestyle and millions of others--upside down. In fact, my husband, two days ago, picked up the virus. We were in several stores days ago, came home, cleaned everything down, showered and then washed clothes; but still he came down with it. He is doing better now but we are being very vigilant about his care. For months, we have been extremely careful and for months, nothing happened. But, the virus got him several days ago. He is feeling much better but from now on, we will be even more vigilant when we go out and come home. For several days, we have struggled and I have been depressed and worried but then I thought, "What am I doing to myself and my husband?" Worry doesn't get you anywhere but running to God is the a...